Best Practice Guidelines for Reflective Supervision/Consultation
Click MI-AIMH Best Practice Guidelines for Reflective Supervision/Consultation to download a copy.
And click MI-AIMH's Infant Mental Health Consultant Competencies to download a copy of the competencies specific to the providers of reflective supervision and consultation.
The intent of this document is to emphasize the importance of reflective supervision and consultation for best practice and to better assure that those providing reflective supervision and consultation are appropriately trained.
Distinguishing Between Administrative, Clinical and Reflective Supervision/Consultation
Many supervisors of infant and family programs are required to provide administrative and/or clinical supervi-sion, while reflective supervision may be optional. Put another way, reflective supervision/consultation often includes administrative elements and is always clinical, while administrative and clinical supervision are not always reflective.
Administrative supervision relates to the oversight of federal, state and agency regulations, program policies, rules and procedures. Supervision that is primarily administrative will be driven to achieve the following ob-jectives:
• hire
• train/educate
• oversee paperwork
• write reports
• explain rules and policies
• coordinate
• monitor productivity
• evaluate
Clinical supervision/consultation, while case-focused, does not necessarily consider what the practitioner brings to the intervention nor does it necessarily encourage the exploration of emotion as it relates to work with an infant/toddler and family. Supervision or consultation that is primarily clinical will most likely include many or all of the administrative objectives that are listed above as well as the following objectives:
• review casework
• discuss the diagnostic impressions and diagnosis
• discuss intervention strategies related to the intervention
• review the intervention or treatment plan
• review and evaluate clinical progress
• give guidance/advice
• teach
Reflective supervision/consultation is distinct due to the shared exploration of the parallel process. That is, attention to all of the relationships is important, including the ones between practitioner and supervisor, be-tween practitioner and parent, and between parent and infant/toddler. It is critical to understand how each of these relationships affects the others. Of additional importance, reflective supervision/consultation relates to professional and personal development within one’s discipline by attending to the emotional content of the work and how reactions to the content affect the work. Finally, there is often greater emphasis on the supervi-sor/consultant's ability to listen and wait, allowing the supervisee to discover solutions, concepts and percep-tions on his/her own without interruption from the supervisor/consultant.
The primary objectives of reflective supervision/consultation include the following:
• form a trusting relationship between supervisor and practitioner
• establish consistent and predictable meetings and times
• ask questions that encourage details about the infant, parent and emerging relationship
• listen
• remain emotionally present
• teach/guide
• nurture/support
• apply the integration of emotion and reason
• foster the reflective process to be internalized by the supervisee
• explore the parallel process and to allow time for personal reflection
• attend to how reactions to the content affect the process
Reflective supervision/consultation may be carried out individually or within a group. For the purposes of this document, reflective supervision/consultation refers specifically to work done in the infant/family field on be-half of the infant/toddler's primary caregiving relationships.
Reflective supervision/consultation may mean different things depending on the program in which it occurs. A reflective supervisor or consultant may be hired/contracted from outside the agency or program, and may be offered to an individual or group/team in order to examine and respond to case material. If the supervisor or consultant is contracted from outside the agency or program, he or she will engage in reflective and clinical discussion, but administrative objectives only when it is clearly indicated in the contract.
If the reflective supervisor/consultant operates within the agency or program, then he/she will most likely need to address reflective, clinical and administrative objectives. When discussions related to disciplinary action need to occur, it is the direct supervisor who addresses them. When the direct supervisor is also the one who provides reflective supervision, some schedule a meeting separate from the reflective supervision time. Others choose to address disciplinary concerns during the regular reflective supervision meeting. Disciplinary action should never occur within a group supervisory/consultation session. In all instances, the reflective supervi-sor/consultant is expected to set limits that are clear, firm & fair, to work collaboratively and to interact and respond respectfully.
In sum, it is important to remember that relationship is the foundation for reflective supervision and consulta-tion. All growth and discovery about the work and oneself takes place within the context of this trusting rela-tionship.
To the extent that the supervisor or consultant and supervisee(s) or consultee(s) are able to establish a secure relationship, the capacity to be reflective will flourish.
“When it’s going well, supervision is a holding environment, a place to feel secure enough to expose insecurities, mistakes, questions and differences.” Rebecca Shahmoon Shanock (1992)
Supervision is “the place to understand the meaning of your work with a family and the meaning and impact of your relationship with the family.” Jeree Pawl, public address
“Do unto others as you would have others do unto others.” Jeree Pawl (1998)
Best Practice Guidelines for the Reflective Supervisor/Consultant
• Agree on a regular time and place to meet
• Arrive on time and remain open, curious and emotionally available
• Protect against interruptions, e.g. turn off phone, close door
• Set the agenda together with the supervisee(s) before you begin
• Respect each supervisee’s pace/readiness to learn
• Ally with supervisee’s strengths, offering reassurance and praise, as appropriate
• Observe and listen carefully
• Strengthen supervisee’s observation and listening skills
• Suspend harsh or critical judgment
• Invite the sharing of details about a particular situation, infant, toddler, parent, their competen-cies, behaviors, interactions, strengths, concerns
• Listen for the emotional experiences that the supervisee is describing when discussing the case or response to the work, e.g. anger, impatience, sorrow, confusion, etc.
• Respond with appropriate empathy
• Invite supervisee to have and talk about feelings awakened in the presence of an infant or very young child and parent(s)
• Wonder about, name and respond to those feelings with appropriate empathy
• Encourage exploration of thoughts and feelings that the supervisee has about the work with very young children and families as well as about one’s response(s) to the work, as the supervisee appears ready or able
• Encourage exploration of thoughts and feelings that the supervisee has about the experience of supervision as well as how that experience might influence his/her work with infants/toddlers and their families or his/her choices in developing relationships.
• Maintain a shared balance of attention on infant/toddler, parent/caregiver and supervisee
• Reflect on supervision/consultation session in preparation for the next meeting
• Remain available throughout the week if there is a crisis or concern that needs immediate atten-tion
Best Practice Guidelines for the Reflective Supervisee/Consultee
• Agree with the supervisor or consultant on a regular time and place to meet
• Arrive on time and remain open and emotionally available
• Come prepared to share the details of a particular situation, home visit, assessment, experience or dilemma
• Ask questions that allow you to think more deeply about your work with very young children and families and also yourself
• Be aware of the feelings that you have in response to your work and in the presence of an infant or very young child and parent(s)
• When you are able, share those feelings with your supervisor/consultant
• Explore the relationship of your feelings to the work you are doing
• Allow your supervisor/consultant to support you
• Remain curious
• Suspend critical or harsh judgment of yourself and of others
• Reflect on supervision/consultation session to enhance professional practice and personal growth
Best Practice Guidelines Regarding Reflective Supervision/Consultation to Endorsement Candidates:
It is in the best interest of practitioners who promote infant mental health, as well as the infants and families they serve, if the reflective supervisor/consultant meets the following standards:
Has earned the MI-AIMH Endorsement or meets all of the qualifications for endorsement as an Infant Mental Health Specialist at Level III or an Infant Mental Health Mentor (Clinical) at Level IV
*Specifically, has received a minimum of 30 clock hours of training specific to the MI-AIMH Competency Guidelines and related to the practice of infant mental health
*Specifically, has received a minimum of 50 clock hours of reflective supervision/consultation within a minimum of one year and a maximum of two years while working with or on behalf of infants, toddlers and their families
The following exception is made if a supervisor/consultant provides reflective supervision/consultation to bachelor’s prepared candidates working toward endorsement as an Infant Family Specialist at Level II and meets the following standards:
Is master’s prepared and has earned the MI-AIMH Endorsement as an Infant Family Specialist at Level II
*Specifically, has received a minimum of 30 clock hours of training specific to the MI-AIMH Competency Guidelines and related to the promotion of infant mental health
*Specifically, has received a minimum of 24 clock hours of reflective supervision/consultation within a minimum of one year and a maximum of two years while working with or on behalf of infants, toddlers and their families
MI-AIMH recommends that those providing reflective supervision/consultation participate regularly in indi-vidual or group reflective supervision/ consultation while providing supervision/consultation to candidates working toward endorsement as Infant Family Specialists, Infant Mental Health Specialists or Infant Mental Health Mentors at Levels II, III and IV.
Reflective supervisors/consultants who have not earned endorsement are invited to contact the MI-AIMH Central Office (734-785-7700) to inquire about training and participation in reflective supervision or consultation groups (see below).
As in relationship-focused practice with families, reflective supervision/consultation is most effective when it occurs in the context of a relationship that has an opportunity to develop by meeting regularly with the same supervisor/consultant over a period of time. Therefore, MI-AIMH expects that endorsement candidates will have received the majority of the required hours from just one source with the balance coming from no more than one other source.
Building Capacity for Reflective Practice:
MI-AIMH recognizes that in many regions there are few supervisors/consultants who meet the qualifications for endorsement (as specified above). If an endorsement candidate has difficulty finding supervi-sion/consultation to promote or support the practice of infant mental health or if a program has difficulty find-ing someone to provide reflective supervision/consultation to guide and support staff who are candidates for endorsement, MI-AIMH can be a resource, too.
MI-AIMH invites endorsement candidates and supervisors/consultants to contact the MI-AIMH central office (734-785-7700) to assist in finding supervisors/consultants who are endorsed and available to work with them or to discuss the standards for best practice presented in this guide. Rapidly changing technology makes it pos-sible to connect through the internet, by phone conference, or face to face.
Please note: Peer supervision (defined as colleagues meeting together without an identified supervi-sor/consultant to guide the reflective process), while valuable for many experienced practitioners, does not meet the reflective supervision/consultation criteria for endorsement as specified in this guide. The provider of reflective supervision is charged with holding the emotional content of the cases presented. The ability to do so is compromised when the provider is a peer of the presenter. Unnecessary complications can arise when the provider of reflective supervision has concerns about a peer’s ability to serve a particular family due to the peer’s emotional response AND the provider and peer share office space, e.g.
Reflective Supervision and Consultation: References and Suggested Resources
Bernstein, V. (2002-03). Standing Firm Against the Forces of Risk: Supporting Home Visiting and Early Intervention Workers through Reflective Supervision. Newsletter of the Infant Mental Health Promotion Pro-ject (IMP). Volume 35, Winter 2002-03.
Center for Mental Health Services, Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration and Services, U.S. Dept. of Health and Human Services. (2000). Early childhood mental health consultation (monograph). Washington, DC: National Technical Assistance Center for Children's Mental Health, Georgetown University Child Development Center.
Fenichel, E. (Ed.). (1992). Learning Through Supervision and Mentorship to Support the Development of In-fants, Toddlers and their Families: A Source Book. Washington, D.C.: Zero to Three.
Bertacci, J. & Coplon, J. (1992). The professional use of self in prevention pp. 84-90.
Schafer, W. (1992). The professionalization of early motherhood, pp. 67-75.
Shahmoon Shanock, R. (1992). The supervisory relationship: Integrator, resource and guide, 37-41.
Foulds, B. & Curtiss, K. (2002). No Longer Risking Myself: Assisting the Supervisor Through Supportive Consultation. In Shirilla, J. & Weatherston, D. (Eds.), Case Studies in Infant Mental Health: Risk, Resiliency, and Relationships. Washington, D.C.: Zero to Three, pp. 177-186.
Heffron, M.C. (2005). Reflective Supervision in Infant, Toddler, and Preschool Work. In K. Finello (Ed.), The Handbook of Training and Practice in Infant and Preschool Mental Health. San Francisco: Jossey-Bass, pp. 114-136.
Journal for ZERO TO THREE ( November, 2007) Reflective Supervision: What is it? Vol. 28, No. 2.
Eggbeer, L., Mann, T. & Seibel, N. (2007). Reflective supervision: Past, present, and future.
Heffron, M., Grunstein, S. & Tiemon, S. (2007) Exploring diversity in supervision and practice.
Schafer, W. (2007). Models and domains of supervision and their relationship to professional devel-opment.
Weatherston, D. (2007) A home based infant mental health intervention: The centrality of relationship in reflective supervision.
Weigand, R. (2007) Reflective supervision in child care: The discoveries of an accidental tourist.
Wightman, B., Weigand, B., Whitaker, K., Traylor, D., Yeider, S. Hyden, V. (2007) Reflective prac-tice and supervision in child abuse prevention.
Parlakian, R. (2002). Look, Listen, and Learn: Reflective Supervision and Relationship-Based Work. Washing-ton, D.C.: Zero to Three.
Pawl, J. & St. John, M. (1998). How you are is as important as what you do. In Making a Positive Difference for Infants, Toddlers and their Families. Washington, D.C.: Zero to Three.
Scott Heller, S., & Gilkerson, L. (Eds.). (2009). A practical guide to reflective supervision. Washington, DC.: ZERO TO THREE.
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Infant Mental Health Consultant1 Competencies
General Guidelines
MI-AIMH recommends that each consultant who is hired to provide reflective
supervision or consultation to an individual or group on behalf of the
promotion of infant mental health be:
Knowledgeable about the community in which the individual/group provides service;
Fully informed and respectful of agency policies, regulations, protocols and rules that
govern the individual’s or group’s services, as well as program standards and specific
components of those services;
Knowledgeable and respectful of leadership roles within the agency;
Able to establish positive working relationships with agency personnel.
MI-AIMH recommends that each consultant is knowledgeable about:
Early development, from pregnancy through labor/delivery and the first 3 years of life,
typical and atypical, complex and in multiple domains
Attachment theory and the importance of early relationships to development
Families, their importance to each child’s development, their differences, cultural norms
and values
Developmental competence and psychopathology, identification of strengths and risks
Situations specific to risk: prematurity, birth of a baby with special needs, the death of
an infant, adolescent parenthood, alcohol and drug abuse, child abuse and neglect,
domestic violence, homelessness, poverty, grief and loss
Assessment approaches, sensitive to understanding the infant or toddler within the
context of each caregiving relationship, and assessment “tools”
Service or intervention models, techniques and principles appropriate to the program
Principles and practices promoting infant mental health
Relationship-based services
Reflective practice
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For the purposes of this document, the term “consultant” refers to the provider of reflective
supervision/consultation.
MI-AIMH recommends that each consultant demonstrate the following skills:
Ability to meet regularly and consistently as agreed upon by the individual/group.
Ability to create a place where individual/group feels safe in describing and exploring
their experiences, thoughts and feelings about the work with infants, very young children
and families.
Ability to enter into and sustain trusting relationships with individual/group.
Ability to model and encourage nurturing behavior.
Ability to provide meaningful support, being careful to enhance competency and self-
worth.
Ability to provide developmental guidance as appropriate, following individual/group’s
lead.
Ability to reduce sense of isolation or loneliness that often accompanies work with
infants, toddlers and families referred for services.
Ability to observe, listen, wonder and respond.
Ability to pay attention to the emotional state of each individual/group.
Ability to facilitate the expression of thoughts and feelings awakened by the work, talk
about them, contain them, and offer comfort and support.
Ability to have and express empathy in response to the experiences, thoughts and
feelings shared individually and within the group; nurture empathy in others.
Ability to attend to both the content (that is, what is happening with a particular infant or
toddler and family, program or center) and the process underlying these events,
including the feelings evoked by both the content and the process.
Ability to give the individual/group the opportunity to experience his/her feelings
consciously, and to understand them in the light of the infant or toddler’s development,
parent-child relationship needs, parental history and current challenges.
Ability to ask questions that encourage reflective practice.
Ability to help individual/group to explore the parallel process, using feelings to inform
understanding of the infant, the parent, the early developing relationship and self.
Of additional importance, MI-AIMH recommends that each consultant follow
the “Best Practice Guidelines for Reflective Supervision/Consultation”
(above), specifically:
Remains culturally aware and sensitive to each individual/group
Recognizes and responds to individual/group's thoughts, feelings of vulnerability and
confusion, as well as strengths
Encourages the exploration of thoughts, feelings and strengths, as appropriate to the
individual/group
Remains open, emotionally available and curious
Regularly examines own thoughts, feelings, strengths and issues of concern with a
trusted supervisor/mentor